You don't have to save every relationship from before your hard chapter to prove you're a good friend — you have to let your circle reorganize around who you are now. In Episode 4 of The Rebuild, I'm breaking down why relationships fading, ending, or unexpectedly beginning after a major life change is normal and even healthy, and introducing the Garden Method — a simple, four-part framework for letting old relationships end without guilt and letting new ones in without fear.